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A description is never as telling as getting to KNOW someone...but I consider myself fiercely intelligent, inquisitive, insightful, passionate, intolerant of ignorance and injustice, very loving, very impatient, insecure, somewhat funny, biologically adequate, moderately alluring.

Tuesday, July 12, 2005

Anonymous...what does it signify?

Originally published 03/14/05

i guess there's a thousand reasons why people do things anonymously...such as reporting a crime, or providing a tip for an investigation, etc. but if your life isn't in danger, for god's sake attach your name to things. own what you put out there for people to listen to.

i got an anonymous comment on my last entry. that's cool, i'm always curious to see what people have to say. so i'm going to respond to this comment, since i haven't previously made my stance on the anonymous bullshit known. but going forward, if you even want me to read your comment, put your damn name on it, ok?

this situation with my husband and myself wasn't a matter of someone doing something wrong. it was a matter of having different ways of doing things. and it was a matter of believing that the people closest to you saw and appreciated your hard work. your comment that i 'take it seriously' was pretty ridiculous. if i wasn't taking it seriously would it have bothered me enough to post about? to be so upset about? you also said that if it looked into the situation or somesuch, that i'd find children who miss me. children who miss me? what on earth does that mean? my children are 2 and 1 and are attached to me nearly all day. i'm actually stunned that you are telling me i need to spend more time with my family. if you don't know the specific situation, how can you know how much time i spend with my family, or how many hours a week my husband's job keeps him from his family? i can't possibly spend MORE time with my family. i can't control the hours he works, and that is the only thing that keeps him from his family, so i'm with him when he's not at work. and i'm RARELY away from our children. you are overstepping your bounds with your comment. because, you may think you know, but you really don' t know, you know?

anyway, on to today. the weekend was glorious. we actually managed to go camping without the boys. it was lovely. we have always loved to camp together, no distractions, just us and the lovely outdoors. i think next time we go, we'll definitely bring gregory...he'll love it. the weekend really helped us clear up some junk between us...like that he's been getting a lot of misinformation from my sister and/or mother about things with the kids. i'm not sure all the details, but enough came out to clear up things between he and i.

tony's off to los angeles for 2 days. had to drive down, poor guy. taking the car to an employee down there. he'll be back wednesday though...nice to have him go on short trips for once.

must cut this short...i only get short reprieves from the monotony of SAHMhood, so more later!

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